Second Baby Syndrome

Mom guiltism #5: I am much more lax about things with my second child...

I sometimes feel guilty for how I do things with my second child as compared to my first. With Caden, I was so terrified of doing the "wrong" thing. Being a new mom creates Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Things get cleaned and sterilized even if they don't need it. Clothes are removed quickly if a speck of dirt appears. Diapers are changed frequently even if not really needed and the day's schedule revolves completely around the baby.
Then, the second baby comes. You realize that maybe you were a little overprotective with the first. You managed to get through the infant stage with one baby without causing any serious, lasting issues. Your OCD recedes a little. Things are different.

For example:

• Now if a pacifier falls on the ground, a quick wipe on the shirt will make it clean enough.
• Now if Zane wants to suck on chalk, even after I say, "NO! Yucky"...then enjoy!
• I used to wash the highchair cover a couple of times a month with Caden--not sure I have washed it yet for Zane...
• There is already too much laundry--if you get dirty, you will be dusted off. As long as your hands are clean, we are good!
• Zane has been forced to be more flexible than Caden ever was.
• Diaper changes...when we have to :-)

Poor Zane. Not quite as spoiled as the first baby. But, he seems to be doing just fine!